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William Henry Milman was born in 1825. He grew up in cathedral surroundings.
His father was one of the great Victorian Deans of St Paul’s. William went to
Oxford to study for the clergy but seems to have been more noted as a champion
oarsman. It was also at university that Milman first evidenced his “wide yet discerning
appreciation for books.”
Ordained in the 1850’s, and benefiting
from his father’s patronage, he was given the ancient church of St. Augustine & St.
Faith on Watling Street in the City. But his greatest service to the church came as chief librarian for Sion College, overseeing a collection of 70,000 clerical
books. Milman spent many years cataloging the books, developing his own system.
He also prevailed upon the church to relocate the library from its inconvenient and inaccessible location in London Wall to a "more central position nearer to the West End.”
The move to the Embankment was underway when, on 13 December 1884, Rev. Milman was married. Now a Minor Canon at St. Paul’s, Milman was 59 on his wedding day. His bride was just 23. Margaret
Julia Campbell was a daughter of Sir George Campbell. After
several years as an administrator in the Raj, Campbell returned to London, was
elected to the House of Commons, and soon known as a great bore, offering “dismal
orations on every possible subject.” The Campbells were South
Kensington neighbours of the longtime bachelor bookman. Their wedding at St.
Jude’s drew a “large and fashionable congregation” and the father of the bride
gave a wedding breakfast for 800 people in Southwell Gardens. The curious couple left for a Paris honeymoon: Canon Milman in clerical black, his young wife sporting a red tam-o-shanter bonnet.
Only a few months later, a brief comment appeared in the weekly Truth: "The marriage of a well-known London
clergyman which excited a
good deal of interest in some sections of 'Society' last winter, has
not proved a success, for incompatibility of temper has led to such
very strained relations, that the lady has returned to her father's
house."
The Milmans never lived together again.
He returned quietly to the thousands of volumes to be sorted at the new Sion Library. “Mrs. Milman”
made a stir in the “Spirit World” claiming she and her sister had “Coincidental
Hallucinations” of seeing their mother writing letters in the library when the
lady was actually upstairs in her bedroom all the time. This inexplicable event excited great
interest in the Psychical Research journals.
So it went for many years. "Unhappy couples were expected to put up with it, quietly arranging their lives to live apart if necessary." (Frances Osborne, The Bolter). But, in 1896, eleven years after they
separated, the Canon received a letter from his wife. "The only straightforward
and honorable course is to let you know that I have formed an attachment to one
that has become everything to me. I am anxious to avoid all unnecessary
publicity in the affair." The canon filed for divorce; he admitted his
wife “who was of a very peculiar tone of mind,” declared that she could not
live with him under any circumstances. Incompatibility alone was not enough. The usual private enquiry agent was
employed to watch the movements of Mrs. Milman and a young solicitor named
Murray (his actual name was Edward Sieveking.) They were discovered living as husband
and wife at a hotel in Dover and in the Rue de Louvre in Paris. Mrs. Milman, of course, made no effort to
defend her adulterous conduct. The divorce was granted and within months she and Sieveking
were married.
Canon Milman died in 1908, to be remembered as
a zealous and highly qualified librarian, a most amiable and good-natured man, who
amply deserved the recognition of his brethren. There was no mention of his
brief marriage. The temptation is to compare him to Edward Casuabon from George Eliot’s
Middlemarch, that dry bookman who rejected “the
preposterous demand that a man should think as much about his own
qualifications for making a charming girl happy as he thinks of hers for making
himself happy.”
How the Vicar Came and Went, a collection of clerical scandals, is now available at Amazon.
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